Truth About Relationships (Love)

Truth is, you don't OWN him, he doesn't OWN you. 

Then you must be thinking, what?! We're in love, definitely we OWN each other! 

No, No, No 

Get your facts right, you two are just in love. Love is what brought you two together. Not money or possessions. (I mean if that is so, it's not true love) 

Doesn't mean that you two are in love means that you two becomes 1 person. Where things he/she does have to gain the opposite's permission to do before doing so. I mean, there's a reason why both of your brains don't merge to become a single head-double bodied human. Ya know what I'm talkin 'bout? 

The reason is simple, because being in love doesn't mean losing your own prospect. If you two are together, I'm sure both of your mindsets are similar one way or another, that made you two attract to each other. And therefore, you know, in love. ❤

I hope you've understood what does a "relationship" mean. 

Follow Your Dreams: I'm Gonna Follow Mine

Have you ever doubted yourself? Thinking if you'll ever succeed if you chose this route. What if you don't? You'll be left with nothing, you'll have to go all the way back down. Nothing left. 

But, do you remember what stroked that dream of yours? What made you believe that you can do that? What? Why did u even start to do that, and then it became your dream. How? 

We seek advice from different people, asking what they advice us to do. Some people encourage, some people discourage. They you start to doubt the power of your dreams, and then forget the purpose of you living. 

But after asking so many different people, did you stop to ask yourself what you wanted? If you're spiritual, did you realise that by doubting these dreams of yours, is actually not having faith in God? 

You forgot. 

So right now, my best advice to you, trust God, trust yourself. Have a leap of faith ❤ 

Maybe?

You make me so happy, you make me feel loved

You make me feel like I'm existent, you make me feel special. 

You show me what 'caring' is, but I'm not sure yet. 

But with all of this, comes out one big reason for me to hesitate. That is, all of this are surreal to me. I've never had this, never thought I'd deserve something like this. 

Could it be God sent, or just another joke. 

My heart fell in love, my brain isn't letting my walls down. 

Could you be the one? Or just another perfect tragedy. 

If I could love you, would you teach me how to. 

There's No Such Thing As Failure

Failure? Uh uh, haven't heard of that word. Do you know what it really means? 

You must be wondering, what?! If you don't succeed means you fail. So of course there's such a word! Or you're another strong believer in everything you do, that definitely you won't fail. Well, here I am to agree with you. 

It all depends on the perspective of "success" you have there and how you bring yourself to succeed. In fact, it's true that nobody can become a failure if only they know what is right for them.

Surely you can't ask an elephant to climb the tree to reach "something" on top of the tree, but surely that elephant is big and strong enough to either bring down the tree or tall enough to get hold of the "thing" on top of the tree. 

If everyone was made to be so academically talent, there would only be ONE job in the whole world. Everybody would be the same, talented in the same thing. If everyone was made the same, example to be a doctor, then who's gonna be the musician to bring music into the world? The world would be dead even with all the doctors in the world. 

So I don't understand when people say that oh you have to score really really well, then go and get a job- Lawyer, Doctor, Teacher. Nobody ever says oh, you have to understand the arts, and go get talented and dance, express yourself, make music, and change the world, become a fashion designer and change what everybody is wearing. 

Do you already see how much more vital and meaningful it is to be the arts person than that ideal doctor. 

Arts change the world, yet it's harder for everyone to earn a lot of money. 

Well then, it all goes back to me saying, not everyone is made to do everything. You have to find out what were you made for, what's your passion, and what, really is your niche?

Once you've done so, DON'T ever EVER let FEAR stop you from doing whatever you WANT to do. DON'T EVER.  Because it's only gonna be the worst decision ever and the BIGGEST REGRET at your deathbed. 

 ❤︎ Thanks for your time  ❤︎ 

ILY  ❤︎ 

Life's too short

Right now, are you feeling like you just can't get enough of life, and that you're being forced and trapped! Urghh, I have the same struggle fellow human. 

Look it's only the starting or January. But not for long I promise. 

Life, yes it's about living it to the fullest. But sometimes it's not only about doing what you like, and abandoning what you HAVE to do. 

There should be a balance in everything you do. If you're studying, make sure you have time to relax and play as well. If a really important exam is coming up in a month, don't panic! Make sure you read through the things you need to know well. And tell yourself you'll be fine. And you'll be fine. 

Make sure, to live a life. Not dead studying or dead working. You will regret as the days go by. It won't be fun I promise. 

So live your life <3